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		<title>Don&#8217;t Give Up!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 03:10:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Neece</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/treeofknowledge2009.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2308" title="treeofknowledge2009" src="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/treeofknowledge2009-253x450.jpg" alt="treeofknowledge2009" width="253" height="450" /></a>To the <a href="http://www.fsgp.org/" target="_blank">Freethought Society of Greater Philadelphia</a>, don&#8217;t give up! Fight the good fight!</p>
<p>I just read an article by Staks Rosch in the <a href="http://www.examiner.com/x-8928-Philadelphia-Atheism-Examiner~y2009m12d3-Atheist-Tree-of-Knowledge-under-attack" target="_blank">Philadelphia Examiner</a> about the FSGP and their Tree of Knowledge. It&#8217;s an evergreen tree decorated with book covers (how shocking, how impudent!) from books representing knowledge, education, science, philosophy, morality, diversity and curiosity. (I am so offended! What? No Twilight?! No Dan Brown?!) <a href="http://www.fsgp.org/storage/Tree of Knowledge Master Booklist.pdf" target="_blank">Here</a> is a complete list of the books represented.</p>
<p>Staks makes some points that I really like: &#8220;[The Tree of Knowledge] <em> is not an attack on religion, but rather an expression of an alternative set of values (i.e. knowledge and reason).&#8221;</em></p>
<p>How horrific! Now I understand why the good christians of the area are so up in arms, vandalizing the tree and organizing call campaigns to get it removed. And why the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/treeofknowledge2009.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2308" title="treeofknowledge2009" src="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/treeofknowledge2009-253x450.jpg" alt="treeofknowledge2009" width="253" height="450" /></a>To the <a href="http://www.fsgp.org/" target="_blank">Freethought Society of Greater Philadelphia</a>, don&#8217;t give up! Fight the good fight!</p>
<p>I just read an article by Staks Rosch in the <a href="http://www.examiner.com/x-8928-Philadelphia-Atheism-Examiner~y2009m12d3-Atheist-Tree-of-Knowledge-under-attack" target="_blank">Philadelphia Examiner</a> about the FSGP and their Tree of Knowledge. It&#8217;s an evergreen tree decorated with book covers (how shocking, how impudent!) from books representing knowledge, education, science, philosophy, morality, diversity and curiosity. (I am so offended! What? No Twilight?! No Dan Brown?!) <a href="http://www.fsgp.org/storage/Tree of Knowledge Master Booklist.pdf" target="_blank">Here</a> is a complete list of the books represented.</p>
<p>Staks makes some points that I really like: &#8220;[The Tree of Knowledge] <em> is not an attack on religion, but rather an expression of an alternative set of values (i.e. knowledge and reason).&#8221;</em></p>
<p>How horrific! Now I understand why the good christians of the area are so up in arms, vandalizing the tree and organizing call campaigns to get it removed. And why the county is bending to the will of one religion on government property. It&#8217;s just so hateful to have a tree decorated with thoughtful, intelligent books. What? Oh? It&#8217;s not threatening at all? EXACTLY! WTF!</p>
<p>Staks also says, &#8220;<em>Many Christians have claimed that the inclusion of humanist values next to the Jesus Crèche is an attempt to “steal” Christmas. It seems that many Christians are of the opinion that Christians own the winter season. They do not.&#8221; </em></p>
<p>Later he says, <em>&#8220;Atheists aren’t trying to “steal” Christmas any more than Christians stole Saturnalia… oh wait, never mind.</em>&#8221; Again, I agree completely.</p>
<p>This kind of thing makes me so angry. Religious organizations bully their way into having their cake and eating it too. Politicians and the masses alike bend to that will for what reason? Why do they get to own most holidays? My sister in law is offended when I say happy holidays instead of merry christmas. It&#8217;s the classic bully at the pulpit who then cries and runs for the government to protect him when someone brings up that he&#8217;s breaking the law or that he&#8217;s being a bully.</p>
<p>christians and muslims don&#8217;t want to play fair. They want to win. Which is why I am an activist atheist. I don&#8217;t want to be forced to pray to a man in the sky that doesn&#8217;t exist. I am moral and ethical on my own without being forced into the barbaric false ethics of an iron aged society of goat herders from the Middle East.</p>
<p>I suppose here in Morgantown, if such inequities are occurring, we&#8217;ll put up an atheist/humanist display soon too. At this time, I am not aware of any. But I haven&#8217;t checked every government building lawn for crèches either.</p>
<p>Keep an eye out in your town. If you see religious displays on government property, take action, form a group. You can then turn it into a community of like-minded people like we&#8217;ve got here in our sleepy little town. It&#8217;s the most wonderful feeling to hang out with a bunch of freethinkers. But don&#8217;t just take things lying down. Don&#8217;t let the religious people bully us into giving up our freedoms and our constitutional rights just because we are too apathetic to make a stand for those rights.</p>
<p>EDIT: The Freethought Society of Greater Philadelphia has helpful hints for <a href="http://www.fsgp.org/tree-of-knowledge/" target="_blank">setting up your own Tree of Knowledge</a>.</p>

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		<title>What Jesus Wouldn&#8217;t Do and What I Have Done</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 13:01:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes you just have to give props where they&#8217;re due. Johnny left a comment somewhere around here yesterday with a link to a youtube video. It was so brilliant I have to share it with you immediately. It&#8217;s about everyone&#8217;s favorite lord, Jesus. Apparently he had a meeting with a group of angels before he had himself impregnated into poor, innocent Mary. This is the video from that meeting. It&#8217;s 8:40 minutes long, but entirely awesome. Thanks, Johnny, for letting us know about it!</p>
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<p>What I don&#8217;t get is that nowhere in the bible is Australia mentioned, and Jesus and the angels are <em>obviously</em> from Down Under. Checkmate, heathens! HA!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#/group.php?gid=103760874771&#38;ref=nf"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1502" title="empty gestures" src="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/emptygestures.jpg" alt="empty gestures" width="261" height="261" /></a>Anyway, along the same lines, I have been pretty active on Facebook for a couple weeks or so. Every day people ask me to join causes and groups for one well-meaning reason or another. But no group really [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes you just have to give props where they&#8217;re due. Johnny left a comment somewhere around here yesterday with a link to a youtube video. It was so brilliant I have to share it with you immediately. It&#8217;s about everyone&#8217;s favorite lord, Jesus. Apparently he had a meeting with a group of angels before he had himself impregnated into poor, innocent Mary. This is the video from that meeting. It&#8217;s 8:40 minutes long, but entirely awesome. Thanks, Johnny, for letting us know about it!</p>
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<p>What I don&#8217;t get is that nowhere in the bible is Australia mentioned, and Jesus and the angels are <em>obviously</em> from Down Under. Checkmate, heathens! HA!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#/group.php?gid=103760874771&amp;ref=nf"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1502" title="empty gestures" src="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/emptygestures.jpg" alt="empty gestures" width="261" height="261" /></a>Anyway, along the same lines, I have been pretty active on Facebook for a couple weeks or so. Every day people ask me to join causes and groups for one well-meaning reason or another. But no group really makes me feel like I&#8217;m doing something through joining. So I had to start my own! It is brand new, so go join today! Invite your friends and family, and together we can make a difference with ZERO EFFORT!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#/group.php?gid=103760874771&amp;ref=nf" target="_blank">Six Zillion Strong For All Causes!</a></h3>
<p>We can all sleep like innocent babies in our comfy beds tonight, secure in the knowledge that <em><strong>we made a difference</strong></em> by joining 6 Zillion Strong.</p>
<p>Think of all we can do if we simply join together. We can save whales from extinction! And polar bears from starvation! And so much more! Join today and then say hi on the discussion board and tell us who or what you want to save today! Since I&#8217;m the Founder, you can leave your comments here, but<em> to truly make a difference</em>, at this time, the only way is to join 6 Zillion Strong on Facebook.</p>
<p>If you feel we need to branch out already, to help spread the love and caring, leave comments here, and maybe we can make a group on HDC that can try to match the great works done by 6 Zillion Strong on Facebook.</p>
<p>Together, we can do anything. And it literally takes <em>ZERO EFFORT</em>! Join Today!</p>
<p>EDIT: this is a test. But watch this 9 minute video anyway, because it&#8217;s funny. These are the only two I&#8217;ve seen but Johnny says <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/NonStampCollector" target="_blank">NonStampCollector</a> is awesome, and I tend to agree.</p>
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		<title>Wild Geese by Mary Oliver &#8211; My Favorite Poem</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 03:36:17 +0000</pubDate>
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<p style="text-align: center;">You do not have to be good.<br />
You do not have to walk on your knees<br />
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.<br />
You only have to let the soft animal of your body<br />
love what it loves.<br />
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.<br />
Meanwhile the world goes on.<br />
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain<br />
are moving across the landscapes,<br />
over the prairies and the deep trees,<br />
the mountains and the rivers.<br />
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,<br />
are heading home again.<br />
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,<br />
the world offers itself to your imagination,<br />
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting—<br />
over and over announcing your place<br />
in [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;">You do not have to be good.<br />
You do not have to walk on your knees<br />
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.<br />
You only have to let the soft animal of your body<br />
love what it loves.<br />
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.<br />
Meanwhile the world goes on.<br />
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain<br />
are moving across the landscapes,<br />
over the prairies and the deep trees,<br />
the mountains and the rivers.<br />
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,<br />
are heading home again.<br />
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,<br />
the world offers itself to your imagination,<br />
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting—<br />
over and over announcing your place<br />
in the family of things.</p>
<p>from Dream Work by Mary Oliver<br />
published by Atlantic Monthly Press<br />
© Mary Oliver</p>
<p>Why am I sharing this?<span id="more-1050"></span></p>
<p>This is my favorite poem. When I first heard it over a decade ago, it struck me as a <a href="http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/palliate" target="_blank">palliative</a> to what ailed me. I was floundering within the christian world, not actively, but still completely under it&#8217;s crushing jackboot of guilt and sacrifice. I had no idea why I was so unhappy and confused. But this poem was beacon. Here was someone telling me I did not have to martyr myself, repenting over forced morals of an ancient and barbaric god. I didn&#8217;t clearly understand this at the time, but I still felt a palpable relief.</p>
<p>It still took me many years to fully shrug off the burden of religion. A long and difficult journey, sometimes quite painful and frightening. But entirely worth it.</p>
<p>I was thinking of this poem today and just wanted to share it with you. Do you have any words or images that you&#8217;ve found comforting or helpful in your life? I&#8217;d love to know what they are. If your story is too long for a comment, email it to me at <a href="mailto:heavingdeadcats@gmail.com">heavingdeadcats@gmail.com</a>. If you want to be anonymous, also email and let me know. But I&#8217;d like to share your story with everyone. I think it&#8217;s helpful for us to share and learn from each other. <img src='http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>

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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-428" href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2008/10/09/men-life/rock/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-428" title="rock" src="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/rock-300x240.jpg" alt="" width="282" height="226" /></a>Hey everyone. How are you today? This post will be about the 2 guys in my life. Coincidentally, they both have done something recently that I wanted to share with you. So here you go:</p>
<p>First, my husband Butch, who happens to be awesomely smart (and pretty damned rogueishly handsome too! hee hee). He doesn&#8217;t blog often, but when he does, I just love to see what is bouncing around in his brain. Usually it&#8217;s a bit on the angry/ranting side of things. Ok, not usually, almost always. <img src='http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>The other day he wrote about <a href="http://ignorancesucks.blogspot.com/2008/10/things-every-american-needs-to-know.html" target="_blank">Things Every American Needs To Know</a>. It&#8217;s a bit on the &#8220;angry diatribe&#8221; kinda post, but it&#8217;s good stuff and I wanted to share it with you. Basically it&#8217;s the difference between rights and privileges. I hope you find it interesting.<span id="more-427"></span></p>
<p>Second, my bestest friend (besides [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-428" href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2008/10/09/men-life/rock/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-428" title="rock" src="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/rock-300x240.jpg" alt="" width="282" height="226" /></a>Hey everyone. How are you today? This post will be about the 2 guys in my life. Coincidentally, they both have done something recently that I wanted to share with you. So here you go:</p>
<p>First, my husband Butch, who happens to be awesomely smart (and pretty damned rogueishly handsome too! hee hee). He doesn&#8217;t blog often, but when he does, I just love to see what is bouncing around in his brain. Usually it&#8217;s a bit on the angry/ranting side of things. Ok, not usually, almost always. <img src='http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>The other day he wrote about <a href="http://ignorancesucks.blogspot.com/2008/10/things-every-american-needs-to-know.html" target="_blank">Things Every American Needs To Know</a>. It&#8217;s a bit on the &#8220;angry diatribe&#8221; kinda post, but it&#8217;s good stuff and I wanted to share it with you. Basically it&#8217;s the difference between rights and privileges. I hope you find it interesting.<span id="more-427"></span></p>
<p>Second, my bestest friend (besides my awesome husband, Butch of course!) is Gary. I introduced you to him the other day in the <a href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2008/10/07/out-of-the-blue-jesus-pitch/" target="_self">Out of the Blue Jesus Pitch</a>. He was very nice to a bible thumper who randomly tried to convert him to the jesus cult. He wasn&#8217;t shaken in his atheism though. He stood firm and politely deflected the attack.</p>
<p>There is a small update on that. The bible thumper contacted him several more times. It&#8217;s so boring and repetitive that I won&#8217;t bother you with it. She never changed her pitch and refused to listen to anything he said. Of course. He finally told her to leave him alone or he&#8217;d block her. Case closed.</p>
<p>But the real reason I&#8217;m bringing him up today, is because I just spent the last couple of days reinstalling windows and therefore everything else. I had been having increasing issues with my computer. If you have windows, you&#8217;ll understand. It happens. Most IT people recommend reinstalling windows about once a year. That&#8217;s about how often I do it.</p>
<p>Of course, I backed up all my settings and stuff. But then windows refused to let me use them. <img src='http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />  It&#8217;s been a grind, as usual. So, that&#8217;s why I haven&#8217;t been around much.</p>
<p>Now, back to Gary. He is the saver of my bacon. Has been as long as we&#8217;ve been friends. He&#8217;s my IT guy. Recently he has started offering to help people through this neat program called <a href="http://www.crossloop.com/" target="_blank">Crossloop</a>. I love Crossloop. It&#8217;s a very simple to use program that lets you access another computer, or let someone help you with yours. User friendly is its middle name. I&#8217;ve never helped anyone, but Gary has helped me many times since we both installed it (which takes about 2 minutes and works with your firewall without problems).</p>
<p>I&#8217;m telling you all this to pimp my buddy out. Like I mentioned, he started offering to help people through Crossloop a short while ago. <a href="http://www.crossloop.com/GaryTerry" target="_blank">You can find his profile here</a>. So, if you need help with your computer, I highly recommend him. He&#8217;s saved my bacon many times.</p>
<p>Ok, that&#8217;s it, I&#8217;m done pimping now. You can go back to your regularly scheduled lives. <img src='http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Have a great day! <img src='http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>

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	<li><a href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2009/03/02/help-identify-this-microscope/" title="Help Identify This Microscope! (March 2, 2009)">Help Identify This Microscope!</a> (4)</li>
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		<title>My Name Is Neece And I&#8217;m An Atheist</title>
		<link>http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2008/08/18/my-name-is-neece-and-im-an-atheist/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 19:30:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Neece</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>It seems in America today, being an atheist is tantamount to being unpatriotic. We&#8217;re constantly labeled &#8220;militant&#8221; by christians. My friend <a href="http://www.atheistnexus.org/profiles/blog/show?id=2182797%3ABlogPost%3A84312" target="_blank">Hess did a blog post</a> about it which I thought made a lot of sense. He defined militant and passionate. I agree with him, I&#8217;m a passionate atheist. And I&#8217;ve honestly never met a militant one. I have met angry ones, though. But personally, I get angry too. I think we have a lot to be angry about.</p>
<p>Anyway, I&#8217;ve been quiet about my atheism for 8 years. I keep my mouth shut. I never confront people, I never even mention it to people. It&#8217;s a personal thing. Or it has been. I&#8217;m not ashamed of being godless. I just don&#8217;t care for confrontation, and I don&#8217;t like offending people.</p>
<p>But why should I have to hide who I am? It&#8217;s more acceptable to be gay [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems in America today, being an atheist is tantamount to being unpatriotic. We&#8217;re constantly labeled &#8220;militant&#8221; by christians. My friend <a href="http://www.atheistnexus.org/profiles/blog/show?id=2182797%3ABlogPost%3A84312" target="_blank">Hess did a blog post</a> about it which I thought made a lot of sense. He defined militant and passionate. I agree with him, I&#8217;m a passionate atheist. And I&#8217;ve honestly never met a militant one. I have met angry ones, though. But personally, I get angry too. I think we have a lot to be angry about.</p>
<p>Anyway, I&#8217;ve been quiet about my atheism for 8 years. I keep my mouth shut. I never confront people, I never even mention it to people. It&#8217;s a personal thing. Or it has been. I&#8217;m not ashamed of being godless. I just don&#8217;t care for confrontation, and I don&#8217;t like offending people.</p>
<p>But why should I have to hide who I am? It&#8217;s more acceptable to be gay than atheist now. But maybe if all of us closet heathens came out and showed that we&#8217;re here and we&#8217;re.. uh.. not queer necessarily.. uh.. relatively nice ethical people, it won&#8217;t be so polarized.</p>
<p>Ok, so that&#8217;s a pipe dream. But since I started Believers Anonymous, and now Heaving Dead Cats, I realize it&#8217;s time for me to stand up and be myself.</p>
<p>So instead of going by Fruitloop, I&#8217;m going to use my name. I&#8217;m Neece. And I&#8217;m an Atheist. And I&#8217;m a Good Person. Deal with it, christians. <img src='http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>

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	<li><a href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2008/08/12/reason-and-polls/" title="Reason and Polls (August 12, 2008)">Reason and Polls</a> (0)</li>
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		<title>Scoutle Makes Networking Effortless</title>
		<link>http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2008/08/14/scoutle-makes-networking-effortless/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 06:18:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Neece</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>So there&#8217;s this new networking tool called <a href="http://www.scoutle.com/" target="_blank">Scoutle</a>.<br />
I&#8217;ll let this 4 minute video explain it, since it does a very good job:</p>
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<p>If you join, find us, we&#8217;re HDC. Make a connection with us and we can support each other effortlessly. <img src='http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Here&#8217;s a link to the <a href="http://www.scoutle.com/index.php?l=1&#38;p=bloggersnetwork&#38;bloggersnetwork=873" target="_blank">Atheist Network</a> on there. You can also go to our widget in the sidebar. <img src='http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>

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	<li><a href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2009/06/05/betty-bowers-and-edward-current-educate-us/" title="Betty Bowers and Edward Current Educate Us (June 5, 2009)">Betty Bowers and Edward Current Educate Us</a> (2)</li>
	<li><a href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2009/06/13/youve-got-to-see-this-mr-deity/" title="You&#8217;ve Got To See This (June 13, 2009)">You&#8217;ve Got To See This</a> (5)</li>
	<li><a href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2008/08/20/no-iq-test-to-be-in-senate/" title="You Don&#8217;t Have To Pass An IQ Test To Be In The Senate (August 20, 2008)">You Don&#8217;t Have To Pass An IQ Test To Be In The Senate</a> [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So there&#8217;s this new networking tool called <a href="http://www.scoutle.com/" target="_blank">Scoutle</a>.<br />
I&#8217;ll let this 4 minute video explain it, since it does a very good job:</p>
<p><object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" width="425" height="344" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"><param name="wmode" value="transparent" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="src" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/yaaoW_6ZJFo&amp;color1=11645361&amp;color2=13619151&amp;fs=1" /><embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/yaaoW_6ZJFo&amp;color1=11645361&amp;color2=13619151&amp;fs=1" allowfullscreen="true" wmode="transparent"></embed></object></p>
<p>If you join, find us, we&#8217;re HDC. Make a connection with us and we can support each other effortlessly. <img src='http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Here&#8217;s a link to the <a href="http://www.scoutle.com/index.php?l=1&amp;p=bloggersnetwork&amp;bloggersnetwork=873" target="_blank">Atheist Network</a> on there. You can also go to our widget in the sidebar. <img src='http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>

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	<li><a href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2009/06/05/betty-bowers-and-edward-current-educate-us/" title="Betty Bowers and Edward Current Educate Us (June 5, 2009)">Betty Bowers and Edward Current Educate Us</a> (2)</li>
	<li><a href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2009/06/13/youve-got-to-see-this-mr-deity/" title="You&#8217;ve Got To See This (June 13, 2009)">You&#8217;ve Got To See This</a> (5)</li>
	<li><a href="http://www.heavingdeadcats.com/2008/08/20/no-iq-test-to-be-in-senate/" title="You Don&#8217;t Have To Pass An IQ Test To Be In The Senate (August 20, 2008)">You Don&#8217;t Have To Pass An IQ Test To Be In The Senate</a> (1)</li>
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